Drift Away

 Entry 1     12:20 a.m.

I am sleeping on the sectional. I ache. I ache so much. I'm hoping the dogs will cuddle and offer comfort. This feels insurmountable at night. I am at sea, trying to get somewhere, anywhere else really, without a fixed point for dead reckoning.

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