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A Palimpsest Has No Use For A Bridge

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 Entry 1 The Bar In Which My Father Drank Himself To Death In 1969. Years ago I knew a woman who was around my age of 22 or so. She was in love with her professor, but apparently there were no strings at the time. I was fascinated by this woman, so foreign to this working class boy. She had gone to Boston Latin, and Bard College, her parents were two very famous and influential Marxist philospophers when that kind of thing still meant something. They summered in the south of France. She got almost all her clothes from J. Crew, a company of which I hadn't heard of before.  As I recall, she liked me AND was very into the woman I was dating at the time (her roommate, who liked women but not her), despite her love for the geriatric professor of poetry. I took this woman out for a beer once or twice. I recall telling her my dream was to grow my hair long, get my college degree and drink at the Blue Moon Tavern (whether I meant it or not, isn't material). We were walking to the Blu...

Brunch-a-Bunch

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 Entry 1    3:17 p.m. My family is coming to Sunday brunch every other week. Jane, Mike, Sarah and Hanna came today. Halloween is magic again with a 5 year old among us.  My sister and niece brought the entrees.  I went to Bakery Nouveau, yes there is one nearby, and got pastries.  Too. Many. Pastries. I am not sure if I am being callous, but with only adults at the table, I discussed the visit to the UW Liver Tumor Clinic with the assembled. I described them as saying they have nothing else to offer and noted they are much clearer about the state of Jenny's disease than VM. Jenny started sobbing. My sister asked, and rightly so, whether Jenny wants to know more clearly what is going on.  It's a fair question. I want her to understand. But, am I putting my needs in front of hers? She has been sobbing off and on ever since.