Falsus In Uno, Falsus In Omnibus

 Entry 1

 

"The apotheosis of self-centered triviality!"

                               --Wilson Quarterly

             

Taking a bath in the morning twilight. Roberta Flack singing about making love accompanies my plunge. The sickly treacle smell of bubble 🫧 bath 🫧 🛀  assaulting my nose while the warmth of the water makes me fight to stay awake. I can't decide if the effect of the warm water today is akin to the feeling you get 3 hours after smoking a joint--the sense of being so tired you just want to stop everything and it's a fight for every tenth of a millimeter you lift your eyelids. Given that I am shaking my left leg as if it were a fairground foot massager, I would say no.

Cleaning day, which means I need to scramble out of this tub and go prepare the way for the cleaning person. While I don't particularly love the Roomba, I do appreciate it lessening the cleaner's workload, the the extent it does. 

Gratitude

I think it is apt for others to consider that I have a bent toward cynicism and spot on for them to believe that I am not a person who expects that many people will put others before self in a given situation. People are conditioned to be selfish in this culture. Boomers were the "me generation," which may explain draft refusal better than simply an unwillingness to kill or be killed. Selflessness and self-sacrifice are less common than a BOGO diamond tennis bracelet sale at Tiffany.

It has kept expanding this narcissism with the problem growing ever worse in the age of selfies, influencers, shark tanks and memoirs by teenagers.  We are at a nadir in human solipsism, or maybe its better to say we have summited peak self-involvement.  Denying this pandemic would be worse. / /

 


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